Back to School, Not Back to Normal: Supporting Grieving Students

As summer winds down and students prepare to head back to class, many face a school year unlike any other. For children and teens coping with loss, the return to school often means navigating grief alongside homework and friendships. It’s a challenging balance that requires understanding, patience and support from teachers, counselors and families.

Grief affects students in many ways. Some may struggle to concentrate or keep up with assignments. Others might withdraw from social activities or show unexpected irritability. Physical symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches can also be signs that a young person is having trouble coping.

Recognizing these signs can help educators and caregivers respond with empathy rather than frustration. Simple actions, like allowing extra time for tasks or providing a quiet space to regroup, can make a big difference in a student’s day. Open communication with families and connecting students to grief support services are also critical steps.

Hospice of the Western Reserve offers specialized grief camps designed to support children and teens experiencing loss. These camps provide safe, creative outlets through art, music and outdoor activities. Participants meet peers who understand what they’re going through, helping reduce feelings of isolation.

Grief camps are open to any child or teen in the community, regardless of their connection to hospice care. They serve as a bridge toward healing and resilience, complementing support that may be offered at school or home.

As this school year begins, remember that for grieving students, “back to school” doesn’t mean “back to normal.” With awareness and compassion, we can help these young people find stability, hope and a path forward.